mahaz

Ever been in a relationship where you KNEW
inside that it wasn’t working… but you loved
the guy and tried everything to make it work
anyways?

   And despite all your efforts, neither you
NOR he became the least bit happier or more
fulfilled, despite everything you tried.

   So you finally took matters into your own
hands and broke things off… (while secretly
hoping that he’d change once he saw that you
were serious about leaving him)

   But this only ended up making you feel
WORSE and less certain about whether you were
doing the right thing.

   If you’ve been through this situation, or
something similar as a woman, you’re not alone.

   Keep reading to find out what to do if
your relationship hasn’t been "working"… and
why trying to "fix" things only leads you to
more of the same unfulfilling experiences that
are pushing you and the man in your life apart.

  to show you a better way…
   
>Note: It is possible to create a positive and
lasting "shift" in your relationship - if you
know how. Part of the secret to this involves
ATTRACTION. If you want to quickly learn how
to create the kind of ATTRACTION that will draw
a man to you, no matter what the "state" of
your relationship has been… then check out
tis "Natural & Lasting Attraction" program here:

http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e/10072/NALA/

WHEN SOMEONE LIES TO YOU- it teaches you that things are not always as they
seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look through the masks
people wear if you want to know their heart. And remove your own masks to
let people know yours.
WHEN SOMEONE STEALS FROM YOU- it teaches you that nothing is forever. Always
appreciate what you have, for you never know when you might lose it. And
never, ever take your friends and family for granted because today is the
only guarantee you have."
WHEN SOMEONE INFLICTS AN INJURY UPON YOU- it teaches you that the human
state is a fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best you can,
it’s the only thing you are sure to have forever.
WHEN SOMEONE MOCKS YOU- it teaches you that no two people are alike. When
you encounter people who are different from you, don’t judge them by how
they look or act; instead base your opinion on the contents of their heart.
WHEN SOMEONE HOLDS A GRUDGE AGAINST YOU- it teaches you that everyone makes
mistakes. When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is
forgive the offender without pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is
the most difficult and courageous thing man can do.
WHEN A LOVED ONE IS UNFAITHFUL TO YOU- it teaches you that resisting
temptation is man’s greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your existence
against all temptation. By doing so you will be rewarded with an enduring
sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you
were tempted.
WHEN SOMEONE CHEATS ON YOU- it teaches you that greed is the root of all
evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be.
Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with
achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.
WHEN SOMEONE RIDICULES YOU- it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept
people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject
someone for imperfections over which they have no control.

Commandment 1
> > > Marriages are made in heaven. But so again, are thunder and
> > > lightning.
> > >
> > > Commandment 2
> > > If you want your wife to listen and pay strict attention to every
> > > word you say, talk in your sleep.
> > >
> > > Commandment 3
> > > Marriage is grand - and divorce is at least 100 grand!
> > >
> > > Commandment 4
> > > Married life is very frustrating! In the first 3 years of
> > > marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens.
> > > From 4th - 7th year and on , the woman speaks and the man
listens.

> > > In the rest of the year, they both speak and the neighbours
> > > listen.
> > >
> > > Commandment 5
> > > When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be
sure

> > > of one thing: Either the car is new or the wife is.
> > >
> > > Commandment 6
> > > Marriage is when a man and woman become as one; the trouble
starts when they try to decide which one.
> > >
> > > Commandment 7
> > > Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about
> > > something you say. After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish.
> > >
> > > Commandment 8
> > > Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical
> > and a good cook. But the law allows only one wife.
> > >
> > > Commandment 9
> > > Marriage and love are purely matter of chemistry. That is why the
> > > wife treats the husband like toxic waste.
> > >
> > > Commandment 10
> > > A man is incomplete until he is married.
> > > After that, he is finished.

p/s:another remarkable forwarded maiL:

Three-Word Phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship. ………sharing a forwarded mail……..

There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships. Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words.

When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that have soured.

The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every relationship.

1. Let me help:

Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

2. I understand you:

People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways - that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.

3. I respect you:

Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

4. I miss you:

Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

5. Maybe you’re right:

This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication when you say "maybe you’re right" is the humility of admitting, "maybe I’m wrong". Let’s face it. When you have an argument with someone, all you normally do is solidify the other person’s point of view. They, or you, will not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you’re right" can
open the door to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express your view in a way that is understandable to the
other person.

6. Please forgive me:

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to
faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is
wiser today than he was yesterday.

7. I thank you:

Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

8. Count on me:

A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds
people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you
can count on me."

9. I’ll be there:

If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from
home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I’ll be there."Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

10. Go for it:

We are all unique individuals. Don’t try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow
their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

11. I love you:

Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs.

The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little
words: "I love you." Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is gone.

Never take some one for granted,Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realise that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones."

eye catching forwarded mail >>>

In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster.

But in front of the person you like, you get happy.

In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring.

But in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.

if you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush.

But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.

In front of the person you love, you can’t say everything on your mind.

But in front of the person you like, you can.

In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy.

But in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.

You can’t look straight into the eyes of the one you love.

But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

When the one you love is crying, you cry with them.

But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.

The feeling of love starts from the eye.

But the feeling of like starts from the ear.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like, all you need to do is cover your ears.
But

If you try to close your eyes, love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever -

Stroking Flames of Desire
by Kimberly Campbell

Your eyes speak secrets,
Stroking flames of desire
My mind reels flying higher and higher
I surrendered and lost all control
As you reached out, awakened my soul

My senses reel, I touch and feel
Your hands over me,
Can this be real?
Your touch against my sultry skin,
My inhibitions escape
As you run kisses softly along my silken nape

Showering me with feelings
Of peace and serenity
My body begins to tremble with ecstasy
Our bodies entwine into sensual flight
Your embrace so very warm and tight

You’ve made me feel this forgotten desire
As you slowly set my senses afire
Passions rising
Secrets of my body comprising

Spellbound you stir my passion from within
I know this must be a sin
Anticipating the warmth of your touch
Your body I do tightly clutch

Stroking fear into submission
For there is no contrition
Our passions yet mounting, no limit in sight
As pleasure we do incite

I cry I moan I tremble so
Raw emotion from so long ago
As pleasure erupts inside
Violently engulfing both the climax of this ride

My seduction is complete

To realize
The value of a sister
Ask someone
Who doesn’t have one
To realize
The value of ten years:
Ask a newly
Divorced couple.
To realize
The value of four years:
Ask a graduate.
To realize
The value of one year:
Ask a student who
Has failed a final exam.
To realize
The value of nine months:
Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.
To realize
The value of one month:
Ask a mother
who has given birth to
A premature baby.
To realize
The value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person
Who has missed the train, bus or plane.
To realize
The value of one-second:
Ask a person
Who has survived an accident.
Time waits for no one.
Treasure every moment you have.
You will treasure it even more when
you can share it with someone special.
To realize the value of a friend or family member:
LOSE ONE.
The origin of this letter is unknown,
But it brings good luck to everyone who passes it on.
Do not keep this letter.
Send it to friends & family to whom you wish good luck
and don’t forget the one who sent it to you!

Peace, love and prosperity to all!
Remember…
hold on tight to the ones you love!

By Mark Goulston, M.D.

Happy couples know that the real relationship begins when the
honeymoon is over. They know that unless you maintain the garden of love, its
beauty will wither and die. In a recent column, you discovered the 10
relationship
mistakes to avoid. Now discover the 10 things that happy couples do:

1. Go to bed at the same time.
Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn’t wait to
go
to bed with each other to make
love? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different
times.
They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later
to do
things while their partner sleeps.

2. Cultivate common interests.
After the passion settles down, it’s common to realize that you have
few
interests in common. But don’t minimize the
importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If
common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the
same
time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you
more
interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too
dependent.

3. Walk hand in hand or side by side.
Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy
couples walk comfortably hand in hand or
side by side. They know it’s more important to be with their partner
than
to see the sights along the way.

4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode.
If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can’t
resolve it, happy couples
default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and
begrudging.

5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she
does wrong.
If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find
something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always
find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy
couples accentuate the positive.

6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work.
Our skin has a memory of "good touch" (loved), "bad touch" (abused)
and
"no touch"
(neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed
in
the "good touch," which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in
the world.

7. Say "I love you" and "Have a good day" every morning.
This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each
partner
sets out each day
to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.

8. Say "Good night" every night, regardless of how you feel.
This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him
or
her, you
still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your
partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.

9. Do a "weather" check during the day.
Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is
going.
This is a great way to adjust
expectations so that you’re more in sync when you connect after work.
For

instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be
unreasonable
to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that
happened to you.

10. Be proud to be seen with your partner.
Happy couples are pleased to be
seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact —
hand
on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not
showing

off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

Even if these actions don’t come naturally, happy couples stick with
them

until they do become a part of their relationship. They know that it
takes
30 days for a change in behavior to become a habit, and a minimum of
six
months for a habit to become a way of life and love.

Dr. Goulston is the co-founder of CouplesCompany. com and the author
of The
6 Secrets of a Lasting Relationship (Putnam, 2001).

"Life is not about what you’ve gained, it’s about what you’ve done"

There was a study done where a control group of 100 people were divided into two.

50 people watched a very funny, tears-of-laughter- type movie.
50 watched a very sad and tears-of-compassion -type movie.

At the end of the sessions researchers collected the "happy tears"

and the "sad tears" with eye droppers.

They found that "happy tears" are made up of brine .. salt water

and not a great deal else.

However the "sad tears" were found to contain the very same

chemicals and enzymes that are found in tumours, ulcers and

other such lumps and bumps and sicknesses throughout the body.

This test concluded that the body, when crying in sadness etc,

is literally flushing out all of the toxic-chemicals that accumulate

and are a part of the sadness / heartache experience.

Therefore if one holds back those tears, those toxic-waters will

find somewhere else to deposit themselves …. and prolonged

lack-of-crying- release will guarantee that the body will accumulate

a huge amount of internal pollution and toxicity that should
have been released through the tears ……

Is it any wonder that the eyes sting so much when we hold back our tears?"